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		<title>BALLS! &#8211; Come See What Goes On In The Minds Of Men</title>
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		<dc:creator>Karen Tortora-Lee</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thehappiestmedium.com/2010/11/balls-come-see-what-goes-on-in-the-minds-of-men/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="100" src="http://thehappiestmedium.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/11/two-men-white-tattoo.jpg" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt=" " title="two men white tattoo" /></a>If you weren&#8217;t familiar with the body of work playwright Monica Bauer has produced, upon hearing the title of her latest show, BALLS!  The Testosterone Plays, it would be very easy to mistakenly dismiss this as a night of 2 one-act plays that do nothing more than skewer fifty percent of the population.  Delve a [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><img style='float: left; margin-right: 10px; border: none;' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=c2406485cee0f095fa737d77f5159ef2&amp;default=http://use.perl.org/images/pix.gif' alt='No Gravatar' width=60 height=60/><p>If you weren&#8217;t familiar with the body of work playwright Monica Bauer has produced, upon hearing the title of her latest show, <strong><em>BALLS!  The Testosterone Plays,</em></strong> it would be very easy to mistakenly dismiss this as a night of 2 one-act plays that do nothing more than skewer fifty percent of the population.  Delve a littler deeper, and examine the titles of the shorts &#8211;  <strong><em>Two Men Walked Into A Bar </em></strong>and <strong><em>Made For Each Other</em></strong> and this notion might be even further cemented.  After all,  <strong><em>Two Men Walked Into A Bar </em></strong>is as ubiquitous a set up as &#8220;How Many Actors Does It Take To Change A Light Bulb?&#8221;  (Answer: Two. One to stand on a chair and change it and one to say &#8220;I wish <strong><em>I </em></strong>was up there!&#8221;)</p>
<p>If you ARE familiar with playwright Monica Bauer, however, you know that an evening of fluffy, mindless confection is the last thing you&#8217;re going to get from her testosterone plays.  For while she&#8217;s got a breezy way with humor and can evenly lace it throughout her stories, this is a woman whose plays about men pack as strong a punch as anything done by Mamet or Labute.  If you want to sip on a cocktail that&#8217;s sweet and full of empty calories, you&#8217;re clearly walking into the wrong bar.</p>
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<p>I&#8217;m no stranger to Monica Bauer or her work &#8211; I was lucky enough to catch an earlier incarnation of<strong><em> Made For Each Other </em></strong>(the 2nd of the 2 plays featured in <strong><em>Balls!</em></strong>) during the Planet Connections Festivity and was left mesmerized by how effortlessly Bauer was able to weave a tale of such humor and love into a tale of such darkness and tragedy.  Bauer is that rare playwright who is able to ease her story out like setting a kite to the wind; she masterfully paces the arc of the story and the tone of the dialogue so that what starts off as a merry little bob on a summer breeze is soon soaring strongly &#8211; pulling you off you feet with the force of it.</p>
<p>Before a word is even spoken in <strong><em>Two Men Walked Into A Bar </em></strong>you know that something&#8217;s brewing.  After all, does anything good ever happen in Mobile, Alabama at 3 am in when the only patrons left drinking are  two Marine veterans of two different wars?  Aaron Gonzalez plays Bill, the younger of the two vets who recently completed his tour.  He&#8217;s tight-lipped about his past, and plays his story close to the vest.  While he doesn&#8217;t mind sharing a drink, he&#8217;d rather just leave it at that.    John (Nick Ruggeri) is the complete opposite.   He&#8217;s a gregarious sort,  ready to keep the drinks flowing in order to loosen up the tongue of his young friend.  John is always ready to try to find a common connection: whether it&#8217;s the Marines, the fact that women just exist to screw up your life and spend your money, or how good it is to knock back a few Johnny Walker Reds as the night draws on.  Bartender, Franklin (John Fico) commiserates with John about woman (<strong><em>They need their mouths sewn shut and their ears popped open</em></strong>) as well as the sentiment that a little more money to clear up a little of his gambling debts wouldn&#8217;t be a bad thing.</p>
<p>However, as so many things that transpire at 3am &#8211; this meeting isn&#8217;t as innocent as it seems.   There&#8217;s an undercurrent of uneasiness that starts off slowly and builds until the tension explodes out of the characters and onto the stage with such force that props are flung aside furiously and those in the audience are left cowering at the level of anger and violence which erupts.  Suffice it to say &#8211; there&#8217;s three sides to every story.  Your side, his side, and the truth.   In the case of these two men who walked into this particular bar, the challenge is how to arrive at the truth without unnecessary bloodshed.  As one marine vet from one senseless war says to the other <strong><em>&#8220;This wouldn&#8217;t be the first mission that starts out about justice and turns out to be about something else.&#8221;</em></strong></p>
<p>Both Gonzalez and Ruggeri do an amazing job at keeping a layer of anger, distrust and uneasiness right below a thin veneer of good-ole-boy Southern camaraderie so that even when things seem to be going well you know that this is simply the calm before the storm.  Under John D. FtizGibbon&#8217;s tight direction, there are no wasted moments in this play that tells a surprisngly rich and powerful tale for one that clocks in at about 30 minutes.</p>
<p>Alternately, <strong><em>Made For Each Other </em></strong>is a quieter yet no less powerful piece.  As I mentioned, I&#8217;d already seen this before at Planet Connections, but it made such an impression on me that I was eager to see it again.  Actually written by Bauer for the actor John Fico, this is a solo show that does what so few solo show out there do &#8211; tells the story of four distinct people with four paths that are ever-widening, rather than the story of one person with other characters who make an appearance and  then are gone.  This makes the story much grander and more resonant, while also giving Fico a format to actually embody all the characters, rather than step in and out of them.  It makes for a much more character-driven piece.</p>
<p>Once again, Fico proved what a versatile, charming, magnetic presence he is on stage as he brings to life the tale of two men who meet, fall in love, decide to marry . . . all while the ghosts of their loved ones watch from the side lines coaxing, cheer-leading and deepening the history.  As a simple missed note becomes a jarring dissonance your heart just breaks for this couple you so want to see succeed.</p>
<p>As I said in <a href="http://thehappiestmedium.com/2010/06/made-for-each-other-til-death-or-something-like-it-do-us-part-planet-connections-2010/" target="_blank">my review earlier this year:</a></p>
<blockquote><p><a href="http://thehappiestmedium.com/2010/06/made-for-each-other-til-death-or-something-like-it-do-us-part-planet-connections-2010/" target="_blank"></a><strong><em> Made for Each Other </em></strong>starts off as one story and slowly becomes another.  It also starts off solidly in the genre of comedy . . . almost a stand up act . . . and brings the lights down on a heartfelt drama.  Bauer has written four characters who are not just solid, but appealing – every time the light dims on one of them you’re sorry to see them go . . . but then you are delighted to see the next character unfolding before you.</p>
<p>Under John FitzGibbon’s direction,  Fico plays this story as if he were four distinct people, and at no point do you ever wonder who you’re looking at.  He has a gift of  using changes in his body language remarkably well – not just relying on vocal calisthenics or props to cue the audience.   Fico’s use of stance, tics, gestures and even habits give each character a uniqueness and to watch Fico transform from one to the other is a joy.</p>
<p><strong><em>Made For Each Other </em></strong>is a  gift all around – to an actor, and to an audience.</p></blockquote>
<p>I couldn&#8217;t recommend BALLS! more strongly.  This is the kind of theatre that will thrill you, make you laugh, make you think and make you nod in recognition.  Give yourself an early holiday present and go see the show before it closes.</p>
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<address><strong>BALLS! the testosterone plays of Monica Bauer</strong></address>
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		<description><![CDATA[<a href="http://thehappiestmedium.com/2010/09/keeping-her-balls-in-the-air-monica-bauer-tells-us-how-she-does-it/"><img align="left" hspace="5" width="100" src="http://thehappiestmedium.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Made_For_Each_Other-150x150.jpg" class="alignleft wp-post-image tfe" alt="Made_For_Each_Other" title="Made_For_Each_Other" /></a>If you weren&#8217;t one of the lucky ones who was able to get to Planet Connections to experience Made For Each Other- take heart!  It&#8217;s coming around again as part of an evening of theatre entitle BALLS: the Testosterone Plays of Monica Bauer.  In order to be able to get this production off the ground [...]]]></description>
				<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p></p><img style='float: left; margin-right: 10px; border: none;' src='http://www.gravatar.com/avatar.php?gravatar_id=c2406485cee0f095fa737d77f5159ef2&amp;default=http://use.perl.org/images/pix.gif' alt='No Gravatar' width=60 height=60/><div id="attachment_10707" class="wp-caption alignleft" style="width: 160px"><img class="size-thumbnail wp-image-10707" title="Made_For_Each_Other" src="http://thehappiestmedium.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/06/Made_For_Each_Other-150x150.jpg" alt="Made_For_Each_Other" width="150" height="150" /><p class="wp-caption-text"> </p></div>
<p>If you weren&#8217;t one of the lucky ones who was able to get to <a href="http://thehappiestmedium.com/2010/06/made-for-each-other-til-death-or-something-like-it-do-us-part-planet-connections-2010/" target="_blank">Planet Connections to experience <strong><em>Made For Each Other</em></strong></a>- take heart!  It&#8217;s coming around again as part of an evening of theatre entitle <strong><em><a href="http://theaterwithballs.webs.com/ballsthetestosteroneplays.htm" target="_blank">BALLS: the Testosterone Plays of Monica Bauer</a></em></strong>.  In order to be able to get this production off the ground some very talented, inspirational writers are gathering on Saturday, September 11th for a one-night-only fundraiser entitled <strong><em><a href="http://www.theaterwithballs.com/womenwithballs.htm" target="_blank">&#8220;WOMEN WITH BALLS&#8221; short plays by women about men</a>.</em></strong></p>
<p>This news makes me very happy becuase 1)  <strong><em>Made for Each Other</em></strong><em> </em> is a terrific show which I&#8217;m excited to have a chance to see again  2) this gives me an opportunity to interview playwright <a href="http://www.monicabauer.com/" target="_blank">Monica Bauer </a>- a talented, funny, smart woman.  Monica took some time out of her really busy schedule to tell me a little bit about the great women who will be sharing the bill with her on 9/11,  how she convincingly channeled the spirit of  war veterans, and what it means to be a woman with balls . . .</p>
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<p><span style="color: #cc99ff;"><strong><em>Monica! First of all &#8211; I love the title of your fundraiser</em> Women With Balls .<em> . . how were you able to gather all these strong-voiced female playwrights together?</em></strong></span></p>
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<p>I’ve been lucky enough to meet and work with several of these terrific playwrights in other places. <a href="http://www.dramamama.net">Robin Rice Lichtig </a>became my Internet pal as we both posted on the International Centre for Women Playwright’s site. Turns out that Robin and I both had plays in an evening titled <strong><em>Women for Women</em></strong> at the HERE Arts Center in 2004, which is where I first saw her powerful monologue <strong><em>Stand Strong</em></strong>, which we are featuring on September 11th! We didn’t know each other then, but realized this after she submitted <strong><em>Stand Strong</em></strong> to <strong><em>Women With Balls</em></strong>! It’s a very small playwriting world off-off Broadway! Robin sent a call for scripts to a list of women playwrights in New York, so Robin is responsible for some of these great women being on board.</p>
<div id="attachment_11723" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 310px"><img class="size-full wp-image-11723" title="Scene from HEADS by EM Lewis" src="http://thehappiestmedium.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/Scene-from-HEADS-by-EM-Lewis.jpg" alt="Richey Nash as journalist Michael Apres and Jeremy Gabriel as photojournalist Jack Velazquez in the world premiere production of HEADS -- written by EM Lewis, directed by Darin Anthony, and produced at the Blank Theater in Hollywood, CA. Photo by Rick Baumgartner  " width="300" height="238" /><p class="wp-caption-text">Richey Nash as journalist Michael Apres and Jeremy Gabriel as photojournalist Jack Velazquez in the world premiere production of HEADS -- written by EM Lewis, directed by Darin Anthony, and produced at the Blank Theater in Hollywood, CA. Photo by Rick Baumgartner  </p></div>
<p><a href="http://www.dramatistsguildweb.com/members/emlewis " target="_blank">EM Lewis </a>is bringing a scene from her multiple award winning Iraq war play, <strong><em>Heads,</em></strong> which premiered in Los Angeles two years ago. I first saw <strong><em>Heads</em></strong> in 2007 at the Great Plains Theater Conference. Ellen Lewis and I had become friends on another Internet list for playwrights, called the Binge (which is not about binge eating, it’s about binge-submitting, sending plays all over the country). That’s how we realized we had both been accepted at the same Conference. So we split the cost of a hotel room, and have been referring to each other as” roomies” ever since.<br />
One of our Honorary Co-Chairs is Kathleen Warnock, whose great work is seen all over the place, and is active in gay and lesbian theater at <a href="http://www.tosos2.org/" target="_blank">TOSOS II</a>. She approached folks she knew whowere good writers. And the rest came to us from a call for scripts passed around at a meeting of “<a href="http://www.facebook.com/5050in2020?ref=search" target="_blank">50/50 in 2020</a>”!<br />
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<strong><em>The first half of  your event is devoted to plays that center around 9/11 as this will fall on the Anniversary of 9/11. I&#8217;ve seen two 9/11 plays in the past year &#8211; one was based in magical realism, one was more about conspiracy theory and politics. Where do the </em></strong></span><span style="color: #cc99ff;"><strong>Women With Balls</strong></span><em><span style="color: #cc99ff;"><strong> plays fall on the spectrum?</strong><br />
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<strong><em>Heads</em></strong> is a realistic suspense story with twists and turns, about three Americans and a Brit who are waiting to die in an insurgent dungeon during the worst of the Iraqi insurgency.  <strong><em>Stand </em></strong><strong><em>Strong</em></strong> is the story of a young elementary school teacher whose students get too close a view of the attack; it has a strong poetic streak and some magical realism. The other two 9/11 plays are mine. <strong><em>Two Men Walked Into a Bar</em></strong> has been produced in Boston and New York, and it uses a lot of black humor to tell the story of an Iraq war vet’s meeting a Vietnam war vet at 3 a.m. in a seedy Alabama bar. It’s so realistic in its portrayal of Marines, I’ve attended talk-backs where audiences were shocked to discover a woman wrote it, even though my name was right there on the playbill! <strong><em>The Most Important Thing </em></strong>was a hit at the Boston Theater Marathon in 2004, and it’s a two-hander, a character study of a man who comes to a video dating service two weeks after 9/11, desperate to find the love of his life as fast as possible.</p>
<p>What they all have in common is a focus on character, not politics. I find a lot of overtly political 9/11 plays don’t interest me, because I know the story, and they just preach to the choir. If I want to learn about the politics of 9/11, I read books.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #cc99ff;">As a female &#8211; and proclaimed Feminist &#8211; playwright you&#8217;re bringing home the point that women can write theatre for, and about men just as well as a man can. Because, of course, for years men have been giving us our most treasured (as well as reviled) female characters. So, turning the tables a little &#8211;  what are some themes that men write about women that you feel they get right, and what do you think they get completely wrong?</span></em></strong></p>
<p>I’m not comfortable calling any playwright’s work “wrong.” I think any playwright who pays attention to human behavior will get characters of any gender “right.” There used to be controversy in the 1940’s and 50’s about gay men writing plays, at a time when gay men could not write openly about relationships between men, that perhaps plawrights such as Tennessee Williams were really writing about gay men disguised as women. Williams thought that was ridiculous, and I agree.</p>
<p>This is where I part company with some feminists, who feel that we need women’s voices in the theater, because only women writers can write about strong women, or women’s issues, and get it “right.” What I do find interesting, is the kinds of prejudices we bring unconsciously to our work. Often, if a man writes a character who is an executive, the default position is male, and a woman is only an executive if they want to write specifically about the issue of “women executives.” The same problem happens in terms of race.</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #cc99ff;">This fundraiser is for 2 of your shows &#8211; one which I saw &#8211; and loved &#8211; Made For Each Other . . . and the other is Two Men Walked Into A Bar. Tell our readers a little about each show &#8211; and why these are the two you&#8217;ve decided to showcase in an evening together.</span></em></strong></p>
<p><div id="attachment_11722" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 224px"><img class="size-medium wp-image-11722 " title="MadeForProdPhoto5[1]" src="http://thehappiestmedium.com/wordpress/wp-content/uploads/2010/09/MadeForProdPhoto51-214x300.jpg" alt=" John Fico, star of &quot;Made for Each Other&quot;. Mr. Fico's photo was taken by Ellis Gaskell" width="214" height="300" /><p class="wp-caption-text">John Fico, star of &quot;Made for Each Other&quot; (Photo by Ellis Gaskell)</p></div>In<strong><em> Made for Each Other</em></strong>, I’ve written a play that goes so close to the bone for gay men of a certain age, that one gay friend asked me if I had been eavesdropping on the last ten years of his life! It’s a play about a relationship between an older and a somewhat younger man, and the generation gap makes a difference. It begins with humor and ends somewhere else; it’s important to me to take an audience somewhere they aren’t expecting to go.</p>
<p>In <strong><em>Two Men Walked Into a Bar</em></strong>, I’ve also got a young man and an older man, in a high-stakes situation. I’ve had military men who just couldn’t figure out how I could get it so “right”, in terms of the code of honor in the Marine Corps. It helps that I served in the National Guard many years ago, and I’ve had a family friend who was (and always will be, in some way) a Marine.  We liberals don’t often get the military “right,” so it’s important to me that I give these two Marines the respect they deserve. But I also deliver an unexpected shift, and a surprise at the end.  That’s one more thing these two plays they have in common, but if I told you, it would spoil the surprise; and it’s not what you think!</p>
<p><strong><em><span style="color: #cc99ff;">You&#8217;re active in the <a href="http://www.facebook.com/5050in2020?ref=search" target="_blank">50-50 in 2020</a> movement, dedicated to increasing the production of women playwrights. I&#8217;d love to know a little more about that movement and also how people who are interested can help the cause. </span></em></strong></p>
<p>Please come to the Facebook page, “<a href="http://www.facebook.com/group.php?gid=25937072860&amp;ref=search" target="_blank">Female Playwrights</a>”, where you can click on a link to a fuller description of how this group first became organized. <a href="http://nymag.com/daily/entertainment/2009/06/its_hard_out_there_for_a_femal.html" target="_blank">Here’s a link to the New York Times</a> <a href="http://nymag.com/daily/entertainment/2009/06/its_hard_out_there_for_a_femal.html" target="_blank">story last year </a>about the disparity between productions of male and female playwrights. This study, and the controversy that followed in terms of interpreting the data, kicked this movement into high gear last year.</p>
<p><em><span style="color: #cc99ff;"><strong>Okay last question &#8211; bonus question . . . the point where you can tell me anything you want. Leave us with a joke, a secret, tell a favorite story from the past, give me your favorite quote . . . fill me in on anything I might have missed. The mic is yours . . .</strong></span></em></p>
<p>I was recently attending a reading at a bookstore in New Haven, Connecticut, home to Yale and the most over-educated group of bookstore-browsers on the planet. A friend of mine was reading her short fiction. We were chatting afterwards with a bunch of writers, and a man I had not met before asked me what kind of writing I did. I told him. Then he asked if I had a play that he could attend, and I told him I had a play about two Marines coming up on September 11th. He smiled and said, “Wow, a play about lady Marines! I bet that’s interesting!” ‘Nuff said!<br />
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&#8216;Nuff Said indeed!  Well, I&#8217;m grateful that Monica Bauer could give us so many tantalizing bits of what we can expect &#8211; not only from the event on September 11th <em><a href="http://www.theaterwithballs.com/womenwithballs.htm" target="_blank"><strong>&#8220;WOMEN WITH BALLS&#8221; short plays by women about men</strong></a> </em> but also the actual plays which will be showcased in <em><a href="http://theaterwithballs.webs.com/ballsthetestosteroneplays.htm" target="_blank"><strong>BALLS: the Testosterone Plays of Monica Bauer</strong></a><strong>. </strong> </em></p>
<p><em>If you can&#8217;t attend the fundraiser but wish to contribute to helping the production play you may make a tax-deductible donation in support of <strong><em>Women With Balls</em></strong> by <a href="https://www.fracturedatlas.org/donate/1439" target="_blank">clicking this link </a>to Monica Bauer&#8217;s account as a Sponsored Artist of Fractured Atlas. </em></p>
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